> It's important to be insufferably pedantic about this
That is perhaps the most succinct and accurate way I've heard to explain and justify why you're sounding like a wet blanket to people that may not understand, while acknowledging that you know how you sound, but there is a reason for it. I expect to use this in the future.
That's an awesome example! To show more of how it works for Western language speakers who might be confused, how about
c = "é"
c[0], c[1]
It's the same phenomenon with Latin characters. (Extra bonus: for me, the combining acute accent character then combines in the terminal with the apostrophe that Python uses to delimit the string!)
Another idea to see the effect is "a" + "é"[1]. (The result is 'á'... and as in your examples, a precomposed "̈́é" is also available which doesn't exhibit any of these phenomena.)