Actually, that feeling you had of not believing it because it seemed so improbable is a fairly common reaction (in my experience as a PoC). It was an "aha!" moment for me to realize that not everyone has had those experiences, and if you hadn't, the scenarios just seem so foreign.
I think it's a similar feeling to being a man, and not really understanding all the crazy shit women have to deal with.
I think it's a similar feeling to being a man, and not really understanding all the crazy shit women have to deal with.