It's not just men that can "have everything taken from them".
Portraying yourself as some sort of "victim of the system" because other people can get married doesn't exactly seem like the strongest way of arguing against asset division during divorce.
Having someone parent your kids while you work 120 hours a week is pretty useful. It's the opinion of the courts that that job is worth exactly half of whatever the working spouse brings home. If you don't like that arrangement what's the point of being married in the first place?