No, but there's no need to render it more complicated than it has to be.
If the person on the other side loses interests because you are indeed being yourself, take it as an advantage.
If they don't want to make the effort in the period when they should make the effort, they've saved you time.
The flipside, of course, is that if you're somewhat like the author and have an fretting behavioural trait, you'll probably scare off a lot of people - which is still a good thing. The ones that stay are worth your time.
