"Remotely disable your apps and media" — did that happen to anyone?
Users who downloaded applications which Apple later pulled from the store (e.g, NetShare) specifically reported that the app continued to work on their phone. If Apple does have the ability to remotely disable applications and/or media, they have made a point (so far) of not exercising it.
iTunes has a nice way to share your library, and you can basically drag and drop music from other computer onto yours.
"Remotely disable your apps and media" — did that happen to anyone?
In other words: FUD.