> My mother just expected me to help with laundry when I was a kid.
My mom was a traditional indian mom, living in an 2-income required american world. So she did most of the normal household chores, and worked ~full time (seriously props to my mom, because most people today complain bitterly if they have to cook after working all day).
She didn't want me to have that the expectation that I was to be taken care of by my wife, after being taken care of by my mom, so at a young age she taught me how to be self-sufficient. Doing laundry, as well as other basic things--balancing checkbook, making a grocery list, planning a weekly dinner menu, etc.
My sister and I also had chores too.
However there were plenty of kids (especially when I got to college and older), that had no concept of self sufficiency. I even had to teach my wife (who has a PhD in engineering) how to do the laundry, cook--no, Babe, turning the stove temp higher does not cook the food faster, load the dishwasher--sorry no, you can't use regular dish soap, wash dishes by hand, tend to the yard, make a grocery list, etc.
My mom was a traditional indian mom, living in an 2-income required american world. So she did most of the normal household chores, and worked ~full time (seriously props to my mom, because most people today complain bitterly if they have to cook after working all day).
She didn't want me to have that the expectation that I was to be taken care of by my wife, after being taken care of by my mom, so at a young age she taught me how to be self-sufficient. Doing laundry, as well as other basic things--balancing checkbook, making a grocery list, planning a weekly dinner menu, etc.
My sister and I also had chores too.
However there were plenty of kids (especially when I got to college and older), that had no concept of self sufficiency. I even had to teach my wife (who has a PhD in engineering) how to do the laundry, cook--no, Babe, turning the stove temp higher does not cook the food faster, load the dishwasher--sorry no, you can't use regular dish soap, wash dishes by hand, tend to the yard, make a grocery list, etc.