"Dealers of Lightning" by Michael Hiltzik is an interesting book about the story of Xerox Parc.
About Steve Jobs and his programmers visit: <<They asked all the right questions and understood all the answers. It was clear to me that they understood what we had a lot better than Xerox [corporation] did.>>
If you view "Brainwash: The Gender Equality Paradox" on YouTube, you will find interesting answers. https://youtu.be/tiJVJ5QRRUE
In a scientific experiment, from the age of nine months, boys choose masculine toys, while girls choose femmine toys. Boys are more attract from inanimate systems, while girls from social interactions.
Obviously culture has an effect, every person is unique, etc., etc. So there cannot be limitation on what a person want and can do. It is only unrealistic pretending that 50% of boys and 50% of girls will have the same interests in work and life, because they are different.
"
I'm out of the tunnel
of amusement
[...]
we live on memories, gentleman,
and games
sincere embraces, kisses and fires
of all those moments,
sad and amusing
and not on moments
that were sadly amusing
"