You do realise you don't have to use these features, don't you? The features are there for those of us who wish to have this information automatically shared with our friends, but if you don't wish to, you can turn the automatic sharing off in some of the applications, or just don't connect/remove the application to/from your Facebook account.
Why complain about features you don't have to use, when many of us like to use them?
Why complain about features you don't have to use, when many of us like to use them?