Ok this may sound stupid but I think there are a lack of words you can satisfactorarily substitute in for swear words.
I know this as I gave them up for lent.
Also many people (example A: PG) with good vocabs still choose to use them.
If there were a word that you regularly substituted in for a swear word, wouldn't it then become a swear word? Do you mean words like "heck" or "freakin"?
I'm also married to my cofounder and the experience is a lot like yours... Startup families are very tight:)
Some people say "startup is a contact sport" but we prefer "startup is a team sport". Keep being grateful and good luck!
We work 6 days a week with sabbath off
No fixed hours but try and keep sleep, exercise and weekly update meetings regular. As most people say we either work "all the time" or "not at all". I like it no matter how hard. My partner suffers because the uncertainty eats at him a bit.
We're at that stage where people think we are a) nuts to leave high paying jobs or b) deluded that we can actually do this ourselves... So the family/social support is kind of 50/50 which impacts lifestyle a lot. Example: we get free rent at home and our friends have preordered because I think they worry for us and want it to work.
I noticed I have less tolerance/ time for mates other than my closest friends who know me best and accept that sometimes the only time to chat is via Skype while waiting at an airport.
Overall, and I'm embarrassed to say this but this is the best lifestyle I could ever imagine. To be successful while living free like this feels almost like its unfairly good, though I'm not sure yet if I'll ever experience that.
We try and do volunteer stuff as when you're a founder it's so easy to be self centred. This helps us look outward and be less wingy bitches when the shit hits the fan.
My husband has been balding since I met him at age 18, 12 years ago. I always thought it made his face and in particular eyes/cheekbones stand out. That said, I know that he never appreciates my teasing...
As a women who has worked in the most superficial of industries (fashion) I can tell you that you are only ever as confident or sexy as you feel. And the great thing about hackers is that these people generally care more about what you can do than your physicality. I think you should take the same "failure as a pathway to learning" approach to networking as you do to other challenges. Some people won't like you. Some people are superficial and boring. Count yourself lucky they will screen themselves out.:)
My 3D modeller is colourblind. His day job is working for a big mother of a sourcing company that has no idea about this challenge. We work together by using codes for colours. It forces me to be very specific on designs and I think it makes him a better modeller because he sees form first.
Fyi apparently mark zuckerberg is colourblind too, hense blue logo. Good luck amigo!
Thanks Sam. For me the note on how you stay personally organised and the last answer I.e 'wait till it's working' were little insights that may make a big difference.
Ta!
I think you should work on something that benefits someone else. Then when you get into the workforce you will remember how good that felt and are more likely to make a habit of it.
Traveling would probably count actually as it makes you see things from others perspectives and realize how lucky you are.
It strikes me, as do a few other posts and comments from YC that this is an incredibly American centric view of the world. I've heard PG say "just consider moving here" but without a visa as a startup that's very difficult.
Also many people (example A: PG) with good vocabs still choose to use them.