Okay, the lawyer in that clip explains nicely how mule's stock contracts have points designed to be negotiated in them that are "nice to have protections" that aren't mandatory.
Another way (especially if you're not working with sophisticated counter-parties) is to have very little of those if any, but instead try to keep it short and sweet.
When you go to a lawyer, it really depends on what you ask for: Their legal ethics somewhat dictate for them to be overprotective. So if you are afraid of scaring the hell out of people, you have to tell them to tone down the parts you want to be more toned down, how you want more X then Y, etc, and get across your actual goals of the process.
Another way (especially if you're not working with sophisticated counter-parties) is to have very little of those if any, but instead try to keep it short and sweet.
When you go to a lawyer, it really depends on what you ask for: Their legal ethics somewhat dictate for them to be overprotective. So if you are afraid of scaring the hell out of people, you have to tell them to tone down the parts you want to be more toned down, how you want more X then Y, etc, and get across your actual goals of the process.